Are Pen Pals A Thing Of The Past
May 6th, 2008 by SexyGalWe have all heard the romantic stories of pen pals that wrote to each other for years without meeting because they lived hundreds or even thousands of miles apart. You exchange a few pictures and spend hours drafting letters back and forth. Without ever dating, you fall in love. This is a classic story that’s existed as long as there’s been a postal system for delivering the letters between would-be lovers.
Today pen pals are meeting from across the globe through the internet dating sites. Let’s face it, most singles go on the dating sites to find love, and companionship, but most importantly they surf the net through internet dating looking for a “friend”.
Is meeting on a dating site really any different than meeting in any other manner? You still have to weed through the nonsense whether you’ve been introduced through a friend, met at a ball game or through an online dating service. There will always be people who pass themselves off as something other than what they really are. There will always be married surfers looking to cheat on their spouses and always predators just looking to get laid.
The advantage to internet dating is that you don’t have to spend hours and money on dinner, babysitters and the like while you’re weeding out the less desirables. The key to successful online dating is to take your time with the process. If you’re attracted to a profile simply take your time by becoming “pen pals” first. Exchanging emails and becoming pen pals allows you to find out the real person behind the “letter”. If you can be attracted to someone by becoming a friend first, isn’t it logical that the sexual attraction and perhaps a relationship will follow?
If you’re looking to find that special someone then why not take the time to do it right? Why not make up questionnaires for each other? You’ll end up finding out hundreds of things about one another and when you finally do meet you’ll have something to talk about. Expand your horizons and meet people in your town or across the globe. Look at it this way, even if you don’t fall in love with your pen pal, you’ve probably made a great friend.
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Post A Hot Profile To Get Laid
April 25th, 2008 by SexyGalIf you’re like most of the eligible singles out there, you are always on the lookout for quality sites to post your profile. What’s better then checking out who’s new on your favorite dating site, engage in a little adult chat or just cruise the net looking for a little online flirting. Not everyone is looking for the love of their life. Many adult singles are looking just to get laid. Long term relationship means next Friday night..
If you’re over 18, namely an adult - you’re about to discover just how easy it is to meet other exciting adult singles just by posting your profile. In many cases you will be able to create a “photo album” of yourself. These photo albums are the highlight to your personal ad. When posting your profile, remember that your ad should reflect YOU! Nothing pisses me off like finding out the “40 something swinging couple turn out to be Ma and Pa Kettle with one foot in the grave. Use your imagination and create a little interest in your photo ad. Your goal here is to get someone to respond to the profile you’ve posted!
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Get Out Of The Bar - Get Into The Singles Chat Room
April 22nd, 2008 by SexyGalThe rooms where singles chat, and hang out in the hope of meeting and forming a future relationship, be it a date or a one night stand, are found by the thousands. The really good chat rooms are found on only a handful of top notch online dating sites. These rooms allow surfers with similar interests get to know each other, and share their a viewpoint or a small part of themselves. Let’s face it, it’s much cheaper than a telephone and any number of singles can chat online to one another simultaneously, and as millions have figured out, if you want erotic excitement, anonymity, and a fantasy life, singles chat is much easier. You can start a relationship, find a date or an online affair, and end it by just pressing the delete key.
Singles chatrooms open communication between people who wouldn’t have talked before, and can create another form of communication that combines some of the fun and banter found in the chat rooms, with the intimacy of letters. International chat for folks living in different countries. Asian chat, Latin Chat, Senior chat - the list goes on! What a terrific way for couples to stay in touch long distance, and there are few people with access to computers in the past five years who haven’t had a their relationship enhanced by email.
The allure of the chat rooms for singles is complex. First these rooms operate 24/7 which fits right into the lifestyle of many. At any time, day or night there’s someone looking to shoot the breeze for a few minutes or a few hours, and you never know when that “someone” on the other end of the keyboard might just be the special someone you’re looking for. In most cases you’ll be chatting with someone from your city who is also single and if you use your common sense, it’s highly unlikely you’ll he’ll be Stan the Serial Killer.
Secondly, the allure of singles chat rooms is that everyone from teens to seniors are tired of looking for love at bars, clubs, in personal ads and on blind dates. Though at first the rooms appear to be sprawling singles bars, most rooms are set up for different ages and sexual preferences. In many cases if you have a special hobby, interest or fetish, you can set up your own room and proceed to invite others to join you. Many of the chat areas are divided into specialized categories. From seniors living in Tulsa to cross dressers in Key West, singles in Asia to lonely wives in Chicago, there’s a room for you.
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Create Interest For Your Adult Dating Profile
April 21st, 2008 by SexyGal Single adults are looking for quality adult dating in droves and their hanging out in the adult single chat rooms in the hope of meeting and forming a future relationship, be it a date or a one night tryst. The really good adult sites in fact only a handful on the net. They provide resources for single adults to pursue interests from those who are married and looking for an discreet affair, to adult singles looking for hot sex chat or a sex date. If you want erotic excitement, anonymity, a fantasy life, or singles chat that’s exclusively for the over 18 crowd, these sites offer unlimited opportunities. 
You’re about to discover just how easy it is to meet exciting single adults in video chatrooms or thru instant messaging from across the country and around the world. In many cases you will be able to create a “photo album” of yourself. These photo albums are the highlight to your personal ad. In most cases you have the option of who you will allow to view your full album.
When posting your adult ad, remember that your ad should reflect YOU! What can be more irritating to find that the person you’ve been live with in the video chatroom turns out to have lied on their profile. Be a little creative. After all the definition of a sexy ad certainly wouldn’t be “well hung black guy looking to get laid”. Use your imagination and create a little interest in your photo personal. Your goal here is to get someone to respond to your ad! With a little luck you can meet up in the lchat room a little later down the road.
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WEB PERSONALS… Are They For You?
March 25th, 2008 by SexyGal
Looking for love on the internet? You’re not desperate, I know, but we do live in a society that is mobile, affluent and used to instant gratification.
It’s a well known fact that technology is playing a bigger part in our lives every day and the internet personals will be as vital to personal connections as the corner grocery store was 100 years ago.
Online dating communities are helping to build lasting relationships and casual encounters.The web personals may help you find that “perfect someone” through their matchmaking technology, but more often than not, it’s chemistry that will tell you if someone is right for you. Most web personals can’t promise the moon, but usually guarantee a good time, the opportunity to learn more about yourself, and just maybe you will find a date or a find a great friend!
Many of the singles online have been married previously and dating is a foreign experience - especially if they’ve been out of circulation for some time. The current trend to stay single much longer along with the “what’s in it for me” generation has made dating a puzzling experience. In addition, children or other obligations make the search selective and complicated. As a result there is an increasingly large population of independent, educated single people looking for love.
You need to get out there and set your goals. You won’t find anyone sitting around wishing. Great online communities that are set up for all ages and sexual preferences and are sitting out there for you to explore. Most of the web personals offer free registration. Be selective - cruise their ads. Your special someone could be a mouse click away. Rev up your social life and give it a try. Have fun!
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Senior Singles Often Feel Like Fifth Wheels
January 5th, 2008 by SexyGalWhen many of today’s seniors were born, the average lifespan for a person living in the U.S. was less than 50 years. At the current forecast of nearly 78 years, the longest life-expectancy in recorded U.S. history, seniors who are divorced or widowed can face years or even decades of single living. Fortunately, there are options for the single senior seeking love a second time around.
Many single seniors feel like a fifth wheel to old friends who are still part of a couple. Before they can enter a new relationship, it’s important that they learn how to redefine themselves not as part of a couple, but as an individual.
Many late-life romances that have moved too swiftly, sweeping one or both of the seniors from bereavement over the loss of a spouse directly to the altar without getting to know their new partner well. These quickie-couples have all the challenges of any second marriage, but with more complex family dynamics, such as grown-up children who are suspicious of the new spouse’s reasons for marrying their parent so quickly. Many of these couples find themselves regretting the hasty marriage within six months.
One of the issues facing older women seeking a mate is a lack of eligible men of their age. Male seniors are nearly twice as likely as female seniors to be married, with 75 percent of senior men living with their spouse, compared with just 41 percent of senior women. The reason: Women still tend to live longer than men, resulting in more widows than widowers in this country. The best way for single senior women and unattached senior men to meet is for both to get out and socialize.
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Our sites have all be thoroughly reviewed and only the best senior dating sites make our list. You probably believe there are hundreds of senior personals websites, but the truth is, there are really only a few that you need to look into. So whether you’re looking for a loving relationship, to exchange emails or just a friend who’s over 40, please check out our links to online senior personals sites.
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Do Open Marriages Work?
August 28th, 2007 by SexyGal
It is difficult to determine just how many married people are involved in open marriages. A study from the 1980s suggested it could be as many as 6 percent of all couples, but most experts believe that number is excessively high.”At least 95 percent of married and cohabitating Americans expect sexual exclusivity,” said Judy Treas, a sociology professor at the University of California at Irvine.
As for the success of open marriages, “there have been no scientific evaluations of how well open marriages work,” Treas said. “The jury is still out.”
Despite the small niche, there is a thriving industry built around the polyamorous. Self-help books, specialized marriage counselors, and retreats, which include everything from courses in Eastern philosophy to the chance to hook up with strangers, are targeted at people in open marriages.
Traditional marriage counsellors typically tell polyamorous couples who are having problems with their marriage that it is the sex with other people that is causing their problems, but therapists like Dossie Easton who co-wrote”The Ethical Slut,” disagreed.
Easton said polyamorous marriages were no more or less successful than marriages, but at least the polyamorous were never surprised to learn their spouse was cheating.
She said openly married couples saw her “for the same problems that traditional therapists deal with. Only traditional therapists tell polyamorous couples if they gave up being polyamorous, then they’d be happy.”
Problems, she said, occur when spouses have different ideas about how polyamory should work.
“Sometimes one wants to have sex with strangers, and the other wants more meaningful relationships outside the marriage. Others want to join groups of like-minded people, [which] I call pods or constellations, where sometimes child-rearing responsibilities are shared.”
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Are Open Marriages More Successful?
August 24th, 2007 by SexyGalTo many, “open marriage” is a phrase so laden with 1970s nostalgia that the idea can’t be considered without imagining its practitioners leering at each other across shag-carpeted conversation pits, their chest hair spilling out of maroon polyester leisure suits.While many of today’s adherents are aging swingers from the old school, a new generation — well organized and committed to legitimizing a lifestyle — continues to push traditional notions of marital fidelity by having sex with people other than their spouses.
But do marriages — fragile institutions traditionally built on the fidelity and sexual intimacy of two people — work when the doors of the bedroom are thrown wide open?
“That’s like asking if monogamy works,” Deborah Anapol, a psychologist and author of “Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits” told ABC NEWS.com. “Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn’t. It depends almost entirely on the people involved and their willingness to tell the truth and do the work.”
“Polyamory,” which literally means “many loves” is a new name for an old practice.
“There were a few studies on open marriage in the early ’60s and ’70s, but the phenomenon seemed to die out and it was just called cheating after that,” said William Doherty, a professor of sociology at the University of Minnesota.
“It resurfaced as polyamory, and some groups have imbued it with a spiritual side. They see it as a pathway to personal development. They see it as a high road; it’s not cheating, it’s growing their relationship,” he said.
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Jealousy Rears It’s Ugly Head In Open Marriages
August 17th, 2007 by SexyGalThe biggest challenge polyamorous couples seem to face is [tag]jealousy#.
Open marriage differs from polygamy in that it is legal, except in those states with extremely rigid anti-adultery laws. Unlike polygamy, in an open marriage both spouses agree to allow each other to have extramarital affairs and relationships can extend to people outside of a formally bound group.
In the open marriages of the 1970s, couples would often set rigid rules about whom they would allow to engage in sex with their partners.
Couples would meet in sex clubs or private parties and swap partners. These relationships were almost always purely sexual, and temporary lovers were rarely introduced to spouses.
Contemporary practitioners of polyamory have changed the rules, and in many cases thrown them out all together, said Dossie Easton.
According to Easton, polyamory is as much a reflection of changes in ’70s-style open marriages as it is a reflection of broad changes in attitudes about casual sex. “There has been a real change in attitudes,” Easton said. “We used to make a huge notion that if you picked up someone at a singles bar and didn’t want to marry them in the morning you shambled out of their house.”
“Nowaday, we have all kinds of open sexual connections with people that we call friends that we are not auditioning for marriage.”
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What’s A Swinging Wife Worth?
August 17th, 2007 by SexyGalNorthbrook, Ill., husband Arthur Friedman persuaded his wife that after 10 years’ marriage, they should become a swinging couple, which he thought would enhance their relationship. His wife, reluctant at first, began to participate and eventually fell in love with another swinging husband, an event that precipitated the Friedmans’ breakup, reported the Chicago Sun-Times.
Friedman, with an inadequate appreciation of irony, sued the husband under Illinois‘ alienation-of-affection law, and in June, a jury actually found in his favor, for $4,802.87. However, the soon-to-be-divorced Mrs. Friedman said she felt humiliated by the implication that she had been “worth” just $480 a year. [Chicago Sun-Times, 7-1-07]
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