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We thought a little info on sex games for couples might make it possible to make your sex life even hotter. You might want to try a few of these to spice up Valentine’s Day.

Spin The Bottle
Now this is a game for couples everyone will remember. The twist? Draw a circle about twice the size of the bottle. Divide your circle into six equal sections and into each section write a sexy request - anything from a foot massage to a French kiss. The sky’s the limit as whatever section you land on, you perform on your partner.

Let’s Play Doctor
I think nearly everyone can remember playing this game as a kid.  As an adult it can take on a whole new excitement.Once you determine who’s the doctor and who’s the patient, switching roles can make this sex game even spicier. Remember, either the doctor or the patient can play the aggressor (for example, a sexually agressive patient comes onto the attractive, unassuming doctor) At first, the doctor could “examine” the half-clothed or naked patient in a nonsexual, professional manner. However, when the doctor discovers an injury in an erogenous zone (the breasts, the groin, inner thigh or buttocks, for example), he should treat the area gently until passion consumes him. Costumes are optional.

Pin The Tail
Blindfold your partner and then lubricate different parts of your body — fingers, chin, tip of the nose, nipple, and so on. You then touch your partner in various places. They have to guess which body part it is. If they guess correctly, you perform a sex act with that body part that only pleases them.

Strip Poker
Who doesn’t like to play poker? You can try this using any other card game you’d like…..Monopoly, Scrabble or maybe a little Strip Chess might be in order. Once the loser has stripped completely, the lovemaking begins with the winner choosing the position.

Truth Or Dare
A good imagination and a healthy sex drive is about all you need for this game. Write out as many dares as you’d like — anything from trying on a sexy outfit to a silly stunt – on separate pieces of paper. Place them in a bowl. Now take turns asking each other naughty questions, such as, “What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever wanted to have sex?” If you don’t answer, dip into the pot and select a dare. Some couples have trouble conveying their likes and dislikes in a bedroom. Set the rules early if you don’t want certain subjects broached such as past lovers etc. Truth or Date is a great means of opening up the communication lines between couples as to what turns each other on…..

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Gentlemen - put that beer down and shut off the television - you’re about to get a much needed lesson as to why your little lady seems to have a perpetual headache when you’re feeling like a roll in the hay. I know you’re thinking that she’s no spring chicken, but have you ever considered that maybe you are the reason she’s not interested in getting down and dirty?

Fact: According to a recent survey and article from Parade magazine, 48% of men don’t have sex more often because their spouse isn’t interested.

It’s natural to lose a little sex drive as we age due to changes in hormone production. Combine age with possible medications that one of you may be taking, and you have a down home crisis building. “If you don’t use it you’ll lose it” may be the tag line for your relationship soon.

Medications? Does anyone actually read all those warning for possible side effects? You’d think that your friendly neighborhood pharmacist would put a big orange warning sticker on the side of the medicine bottle bringing the “I’m not interested in sex”  side-effect to your attention, but apparently “Take With Food” is more important… And then there are the football games to watch, busy schedules, children in the house, grass to be cut, etc. etc. You get the picture.

I’ve put together 10 Top Ways To Get Your Love Life Back:

One: Take a look in the mirror. Are you the ’stud’ that you once were? I know these buff actors look great with their 5 O’Clock shadow - but seriously, think about what that feels like against her skin. Clean yourself up a bit and throw away those tacky Fruit of the Looms. Those streaks up the back are a real turn off. Try to refrain from prancing from room to room in the nude. A little suspense goes a long way with most of the ladies.

Two: Could it be she’s self conscious about how she appears to you? Combine a job, a couple of kids, an inattentive husband and days spent picking up after your sorry ass, and it’s no wonder she could care less about “Mr Big”! When was the last time you told her she’s beautiful or sexy?

Three: You need to get serious and talk to your partner about how you’re feeling. You might be amazed that your partner is feeling the same as you!

Four: Spice it up. Part of the turn-off of long-term monogamy stems from monotony-doing the same old sexual routine every single time. He kisses you here. Then you touch him there. Point A goes into slot B. Oh, so been there, done that. Try new locations. For instance, try out all of the rooms of your house. Then move to the backyard. Try new positions. Try new outfits.

Five: Try new foods and new places. Get out of the house and do something as a couple!

Six: Try a little adult videos or toys

Seven: Hold your breath folks - consider finding yourselves a “Swing Club”. Just being around other sexy people, will get the blood flowing.

Eight: Why not cough up a few bucks and get a hotel room. Can’t afford it? Send to kids to Grandmas for an evening.

Nine: Get yourself some books on lovemaking. It’s time you both learned a few tricks that may be turn-ons for one another.

Ten:  If you you or your partner are on medications, speak with you doctor about the potential side-effects. They might be able to change your prescription to something that will not affect your sex drive.

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It’s not easy finding love and companionship in today’s society. We are inundated with pictures in the media of the ideal women - usually someone who looks like they haven’t eating in a few months.

If you’re overweight and considered a BBW (big, bold & wonderful), it can be even more difficult. Finding someone to look past your weight and see the “real” beauty is always a challange.

Donna Hayward, a Toronto woman has discovered just how cruel people can be. The man who stole her heart has been accused of keeping the most terrible of secrets — not just from her, but from so many of his other lovers as well.

Lester Felix, the handsome 28-year-old she has been sleeping with for more than a year, has just been charged with aggravated assault for allegedly having unprotected sex without disclosing he has HIV — a medical condition he has had since 2005.

Ms Hayward met Felix online and there will be many who will blame her for her misfortune, but no one does more than herself. Hayward wanted to use condoms, but says Felix told her he was allergic to latex and assured her he was “clean” — so she agreed to unprotected sex, a mistake she ‘ll always regret.

She now anxiously awaits the test results to see if she’s been infected, but Hayward felt she had a duty to go public and encourage Felix’s other partners to get tested and speak to the police as she has.

“It’s embarrassing to come forward, to admit that I was with him, but hopefully me being strong enough to do this will help other people,”

“I know there are other girls. I don’t want him to be able to do this ever again.”

Here’s hoping this BBW lover sees some jail time!

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Having sex can be like going to the gym or starting that damn diet. Your mind and body rebels against it, but once you’ve done it, you feel amazing. But why all the hoopla about orgasms?Aren’t orgasms the main reason we have sex?  Obviously, since couples seem to be in a race to find it. You have to wonder why all the fuss. After all, the feeling may be great, but it only lasts 30 to 60 seconds!

Here are a few stats:

• Orgasms releases chemicals in your brain which can reduce anxiety, depression and even aging. An orgasm a day may keep the doctor away!
• According the Daily Mail and Newcastle University, women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner!
• Men have them while they sleep…
• Women seem to need self help literature to find that elusive orgasm as statistics are showing that over 30% of women do not experience orgasms during sex.
• Millions of people spend countless hours on the internet looking for it…..
• Most people never find it….   Many lose it…..
• Some orgasms are silent…Some are dry…Some are really noisy and really wet.
• Great foreplay can make up for a missed orgasm!
• Mornings are the best time for orgasms, as your body has produced sex hormones, including testosterone, overnight and, by daybreak, they are peaking.

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Some of our biggest fads seems to have come from “across the Pond”. First came dogging, an underground swinging scene where couples and sometimes third or fourth parties engage in public sex for an exhibitionist thrill

What started out as media hoax that claimed the Bluetooth mobile phones were being used to arrange random sexual encounters, has blossomed into one of Britain’s hottest fads.

Originally dozens of news organizations were duped by pranksters claiming to be practitioners of “toothing,” in which strangers in the U.K. were meeting up on commuter trains for clandestine sexual encounters. The liaisons were supposedly organized through messages broadcast via Bluetooth phones and handhelds. However, one of those involved now says the story was an elaborate hoax. After first creating an online forum, the pranksters persuaded friends to fill the site with scores of salacious, but fictitious, stories.

The principle is very simple Strangers on trains and buses and at bars and concerts hook up for clandestine sex by text messaging each other with their Bluetooth-enabled cell phones or PDAs. The sexual encounter usually takes place on some form of transport or enclosed area such as a conference or training seminar…. Users ‘discover’ other computers or phones in the vicinity and then send a speculative message. The usual greeting is: ‘Toothing?’”

Toothing takes advantage of the capabilities of Bluetooth, a wireless technology that allows two devices to communicate with each other over short distances. Many mobile phones and PDAs now have built-in Bluetooth functionality and allow users to automatically locate other such devices in their vicinity.

Another great little hoax from the Brits…..

 

Find Yourself A Lover…using your phone

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

There’s no doubt that today is one of the busiest in the floral and chocolate industry. I know you’re just bragging like mad to your friends about those gorgeous flowers that arrived this morning.

A word of note  - chances are he’s send other “declarations of his love” to a number of ladies he’s met on the Internet. The anonymity of the web gives your cheating husband million of opportunities to do a little online flirting or to find a quick hook-up for the next night you’re out with the girls.

Let’s face it, what can be more exciting that you knowing you’re married, the web site you’re cruising knows you’re married and everyone is looking for a little sex on the side. It’s married dating at it’s best!

If you think the Love Of Your Life may be dipping his ink in other inkwells, consider buying some software to hunt down the bastard. The software allows you to track every web page he’s visited, and his emails.

Sad but true!

Find A Married Lover!

 

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If you think you’re getting screwed with the soaring gas prices, I know where you can go to get screwed literally.

There’s a prostitute in Northern Kentucky who’s been trading sex for gasoline. Seems like our quick thinking prostitute decided to take in $100 gas cards in lieu of cash.

America! The Land of Opportunity…

 

Find A Girl With A Gas Card

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The profile of some pig head at one of the online dating sites reads something like this……”Intelligent, caring, sexy, open-minded man wants to converse with intelligent, caring, open-minded sexy women. NO FATTIES. If you’re fat, don’t even waste my time.”

This idiot will be wasting our time.

The jerk seems to think that just because our stomachs are bigger and our hips wider and our breast are larger and our overall body parts are a little more jiggly, that we don’t aren’t sexy or sensual or sassy? Or appear that way to others? Give me a break. What does THAT have to do with anything?

We are the BBW generation. Who are we - why we’re women and we’re big beautiful women at that!. No more, no less. We are feminine and desirable, it’s just that we don’t happen to have a flat stomach, tight arms and perky little breasts. So what?

Is a man any less a man or less masculine because he doesn’t have a full head of hair, wicked smiling eyes, a handsome face, great shoulders and arms, a firm chest, nice stomach, or a tight butt.

He might be pleasantly surprised to find that our appetite for sex may equal our appetite for good food. Not like sex? Why wouldn’t we? Why not take a few minutes and visit our BBW dating page, you may be pleasantly surprised to find sexy, gorgeous women who are big and beautiful. They’re looking to hook up with someone who appreciates someone who’s not build like a 12 year

Meet A Sexy BBW

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Sex Addiction has nothing to do with a high sex drive. Because your partner thinks you’re a sex maniac because you have different sex drives is in no way related to an individual with a sex addiction.A sex addict, uses the excitement and stimulation of sex for short-term thrills. The sexaholic, like an alcoholic, finds the addiction gets progressively worse over time interfering in maintaining a lasting, loving relationships.

Sex Addiction can involve a wide variety of practices. Sometimes an addict has trouble with just one unwanted behavior, sometimes with many. A large number of sex addicts say their unhealthy use of sex has been a progressive process. It may have started with an addiction to masturbation, pornography (either printed or electronic), or a relationship, but over the years progressed to increasingly dangerous behaviors.

The essence of all addiction is the addicts’ experience of powerlessness over a compulsive behavior, resulting in their lives becoming unmanageable. The addict may wish to stop — yet repeatedly fails to do so. The unmanageability of addicts’ lives can be seen in the consequences they suffer: losing relationships, difficulties with work, arrests, financial troubles, a loss of interest in things not sexual, low self-esteem and despair.

Here are a few of the signs of a sex addiction:

• Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?

• Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?

• Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?

• Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?

• Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?

• Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships?

• Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?

• Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?

• Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?

• Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?

• Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?

• Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?

• Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?

• though the addiction may be ruining a relationship, the you treasure, you find you just cannot stop

• you spend most of your time thinking about the next liaison even though you may have a willing partner at home

• you spend hour trolling the internet for internet sex and pornography

If you feel you may have a sex addiction and would like to change your life, you might consider visiting Sex Addicts Anonymous, ( www.saa-recovery.org). They hold meetings around the world. Women who call can ask to speak to another woman and there are some men-only meetings.

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My grandfather spent the last eight years of his life in one of the area’s better nursing homes. I don’t think the services that the home provided included finding him a local prostitute to help him pass the time.

The Denmark nursing home, located about 100 miles west ofCopenhagen decided to get the old coot ahooker after he’d made an indecent proposal to one of the staff.

“There was a considerable change in his demeanor after the escort girl had paid him a visit,” Kristensen said in an interview. “We do this for our clients just as we offer them other services that they need as human beings.”

Denmark’s 98 municipalities are free to let nurses call prostitutes, which has been legal in the country since 1999.

I wonder if the call girl brings along the Viagra?

Find Yourself Your Own Call Girl

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