10 Top Ways To Get Your Love Life Back
September 25th, 2009 by SexyGal
Gentlemen – put that beer down and shut off the television – you’re about to get a much needed lesson as to why your little lady seems to have a perpetual headache when you’re feeling like a roll in the hay. I know you’re thinking that she’s no spring chicken, but have you ever considered that maybe you are the reason she’s not interested in getting down and dirty?
Fact: According to a recent survey and article from Parade magazine, 48% of men don’t have sex more often because their spouse isn’t interested.
It’s natural to lose a little sex drive as we age due to changes in hormone production. Combine age with possible medications that one of you may be taking, and you have a down home crisis building. “If you don’t use it you’ll lose it” may be the tag line for your relationship soon.
Medications? Does anyone actually read all those warning for possible side effects? You’d think that your friendly neighborhood pharmacist would put a big orange warning sticker on the side of the medicine bottle bringing the “I’m not interested in sex” side-effect to your attention, but apparently “Take With Food” is more important… And then there are the football games to watch, busy schedules, children in the house, grass to be cut, etc. etc. You get the picture.
I’ve put together 10 Top Ways To Get Your Love Life Back:
One: Take a look in the mirror. Are you the ’stud’ that you once were? I know these buff actors look great with their 5 O’Clock shadow – but seriously, think about what that feels like against her skin. Clean yourself up a bit and throw away those tacky Fruit of the Looms. Those streaks up the back are a real turn off. Try to refrain from prancing from room to room in the nude. A little suspense goes a long way with most of the ladies.
Two: Could it be she’s self conscious about how she appears to you? Combine a job, a couple of kids, an inattentive husband and days spent picking up after your sorry ass, and it’s no wonder she could care less about “Mr Big”! When was the last time you told her she’s beautiful or sexy?
Three: You need to get serious and talk to your partner about how you’re feeling. You might be amazed that your partner is feeling the same as you!
Four: Spice it up. Part of the turn-off of long-term monogamy stems from monotony-doing the same old sexual routine every single time. He kisses you here. Then you touch him there. Point A goes into slot B. Oh, so been there, done that. Try new locations. For instance, try out all of the rooms of your house. Then move to the backyard. Try new positions. Try new outfits.
Five: Try new foods and new places. Get out of the house and do something as a couple!
Six: Try a little adult videos or toys
Seven: Hold your breath folks – consider finding yourselves a “Swing Club”. Just being around other sexy people, will get the blood flowing.
Eight: Why not cough up a few bucks and get a hotel room. Can’t afford it? Send to kids to Grandmas for an evening.
Nine: Get yourself some books on lovemaking. It’s time you both learned a few tricks that may be turn-ons for one another.
Ten: If you you or your partner are on medications, speak with you doctor about the potential side-effects. They might be able to change your prescription to something that will not affect your sex drive.
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