New Year's Resolutions. It's that time of the year again,
where we once again try to shore up our lives and strive
towards improvement.
Where each and
every one of us promises to stop annoying habits or start
new regimens, thoughts, or programs to help us to become
better individuals. We all say that we’ll stop or start
them, some of us even follow through - to some extent
anyway. How many of you actually continued the whole entire
resolution throughout the whole following year? Right. I say
be optimistic. Look towards the future, not at your past.
Focus on what accomplishments you can make, not the failures
you left behind in the last year. Make the new year a clean
slate!
Here are just a
few resolutions I scraped together to help you in your goal
to find a date or keeping a great relationship!
1.
I will try to fix up my
single friends.
With some of us, it’s easy to find dates, but for
others, maybe a little help might be appreciated. I
always try to fix up any new woman I meet with the
multitudes of fabulous single guys I know. Hey,
sometimes it works out. It’s good Karma, in any case.
(see number 3, below).
2.
I will get out more.
The chances are higher of
meeting someone interesting when you expand your social
horizons. Classes, volunteer work, asking friends for
help... the more effort you put out, the better your
chances. Go out into the world and be seen!
3.
I will have more dinner parties.
This is a great way to meet people. You can take
turns with a small group, each hosting a dinner party at
yours or their place every week or so, with the rule that at
least one or two single outsiders are invited to the dinner
every time.
4. I will work on eliminating my own
annoying habits.
Nobody is perfect, especially moi. For example: I tend to
interrupt people mid sentence, it drives them crazy, and I
hate doing it. I really need to focus on becoming a better
listener.
5.
I will refuse to put up with flaky behavior.
If someone doesn’t call when they promised to call, or they
keep canceling date after date, then move on. These
resolutions are about creating a better love life, and if
that means cleaning house, then so be it.
6.
I will work on getting in shape.
We all wish for
optimum health and body image, but it isn’t easy finding the
time and motivation. If you have someone in your life right
now, you could work out together.
7.
I will create more quality time with
my partner.
Wednesday evening could be movie
night. Turn chores into a fun event. Pick something you both
enjoy doing together and relish your time together.
8.
I will share more sunsets,
country walks and candlelight with my lover. Think
back to the days when life was more simple, before
electricity or television. The simplest things were a
comfort, like reading a book by firelight or cooking from
scratch.
9.
I will put aside three dollars every
week, and at the end
of the year, take my sweetheart out for a fabulous
dinner/evening on the town! (If you smoke, and you quit, and
follow this advice, change that fabulous dinner into a trip
to Club Med...)
10.
I will not settle for less than I
deserve. This needs no
explanation. Stick to it, and your chances for happiness
will expand greatly.
This article courtesy of
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